Have you ever taken out the trash? Metaphorically speaking I mean. Like rid yourself from something that had zero space, significance, or importance in your life? Sometimes we all come across certain people, things, or situations that are toxic in our lives. And sometimes you might not know exactly how to rid yourself from the toxicity, but eventually I think we all get pushed to our limit and find the strength to do what’s right for ourselves.
Today I feel liberated as I finally rid myself of someone that was nothing short of toxic and had been bothering me for quite a while. Someone who would accuse and assume things, and in a nutshell would make up lies when they had no idea what they were talking about. And you know what they say about those who assume, you make an ass out of you and me. It was very clear not only to me, but to several mutual friends around us including my fiance that this person was literally copying me which is completely ridiculous and senseless. I’m still trying to understand the point. My fiance had told me several times he thought the person was jealous of me. In a sense it felt like they were competing with me and my life, and it truly began to make me uncomfortable and upset me. I don’t have the time, space or use for people who are very clearly jealous, dishonest, insecure, immature, and have a serious lack individuality. The person was never a real friend, more like an acquaintance of sorts so in the end it wasn’t difficult to cut the ties of communication. I simply can’t be bothered with childish acts of drama and BS. I have much better and more important people and things to focus my time and energy on like my fiance, our wedding, and our true family and friends. I prefer to only surround myself with those who are true at heart, real, and honest.
So with all that said I never thought “trash day” could feel so good and so liberating, but boy does it ever! Baaaabye!
~SLK